Not Your Therapist
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Not Your Therapist
A love and dating advice podcast for the friend you can't listen to anymore. New episodes every Wednesday>
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Season 2 Ep 4: Cacao Magic & Men Who Want A LOT Of Kids
Daliya recaps grownup Halloween and reminisces about Halloweens of yore. Did you make out? Our resident Single in the Field and Wellness Expert, Alex,...

Season 2 Ep 3: Keep Your # In Your Pocket!
Daliya holds space for just how hard it is in the world right now, and what we can do to hold ourselves through it. It's ok if you're not in the mood...

S2 E2: Dating Q’s, Tik Tok Dates, and… Colostrum?
Daliya gives her expert advice on everything from dating a vegan to what to do if your partner has a family member who is an absolute NIGHTMARE. And...

Season 2 Ep 1: The Joy of Dating & Butter
We’re back, baby! Post-pandemic, Daliya had a literal baby and became a real-life therapist, Alex, our Single Out in the Field, moved to New York… The...

Breakups and Boyfriends With Beautiful Billy
This was recorded in the dark winter months of COVID and I honestly don't remember a lot of what we talked about, as I've been knee deep in therapy sc...

When Harry Met (and Met and Met) Suzee
Suzee is hot, cool, and has no problem getting people to fall in love with her. It's the staying in love that's the problem, even despite her best eff...

Is it Time to Call the Wedding Off?
Remember big weddings???? This episode was originally posted April 2019, when those used to happen and be a BIG FREAKIN DEAL. This episode was also a...

Q's & Aspirational A's With Non-Life Coach Witch Timothy Drucker
One word for Tim Drucker: aspirational. We are ALL lucky because he blessed us with his presence to answer some long-awaited listener Qs. We discuss s...

2021: The (Dating) Olympics Are Coming
Alex and I are kicking the year off right! We have so much to discuss because it's been a while! WHEN can we all mush our bodies together again, WHY t...

Married!! Weeeee!!!! And Your Qs
Alex and I are diving in post-my marriage and answering some long-awaited listener qs like: when is it ok to lie on dating profiles? How long is too l...

When It All Gets TOO Real
Robbie is BACK to discuss his no-longer-new or relationship and where it might (or might not) be going. How much time is too much to spend together? D...

Bring Your Baggage (A Labor of Love)
Let's give up on pretending to be perfect already! EVERYone has baggage; what matters is what you do with that baggage. And everyone has major emotion...

We're Back! And Ready to Attack
I'm back with health and wellness expert and dating guinea pig Alex Jospin! Since we're still in quarantine, we're gonna talk about dating in quaranti...

Take a Break
My partner is depressed and wants to take a break: do I stay or go? What are some fun creative things to do in quarantine for my partner? Do I keep in...

The Upside of Staying Inside
It's health and wellness week with coach Alex Jospin and we get INto it as the quarantine beat goes on...but we don't just talk about that! Hear our h...

The Matchmakers' Guide to Virtual Dating
The ladies from LJ Matchmaking, aka "The Love Agents of Hollywood", join me to talk about virtual matchmaking, their virtual blind date venture (it's...

When He WILL Be Your Boyfriend!
AND...what do with all this horniness in quarantine (yours and ours and theirs)!? Fan Favorite Billy Griffin Jr. is BACK to update us on an EPIC assig...

Sex in Quarantine! Live or Not!
Listener question for the week: how can I be more comfortable telling my new-ish partner what I'm into sexually? Let's talk about it, as well as how t...

You COVID Stop Me From Dating
Alex Jospin (health and wellness expert and my single out in the field, AND the brain behind this incredible episode title) joins me to talk about all...

Polyamory Story Hour
First up: plenty of hot tips for our current situation and how to feel MORE connected and hopeful romantically - not less. And THEN. Goddess Angel And...

Love in the Time of Corona
Staying in can be FUN, and GREAT for your dating life! I mean it; so do it. Whether you go on FaceTime dates (Love Is Blind-style without the blind!),...

Dying for Dying for Sex
What do you do when everything is "perfect" in a relationship except a fewwww key things? And if you were all of a sudden told you were terminal, what...

Love Is Blind...OR IS IT
Health and wellness coach and Single Out in the Field Alex Jospin is BACK this week to talk Love Is Blind (what can we learn from this apparent disast...

The New Gay
Comedian Audrey Stewart is lunging at women out in the world (consensually) and LOVING IT!!! Sometimes. Other times she's beating herself up and doubt...

Dating Advice From a Wedding Planner
Who knew that wedding planners have the true T when it comes to what works and what doesn’t in dating and relationships?? I did! And now you will too....

Winning One Night Stands
With V-Day right around the corner, it’s the perfect time for some adventures just for the sake of adventure! It doesn’t HAVE to be a full one night s...

New Vagina Who Dis
Alex named this episode! She's going to be my Single Out in the Field, testing out my methods, my assignments, my techniques, and her new vagina. Lear...

Every Date Needs a Cleanup Sponge
Why do couples who post a ton on social media usually end up not working out? Does Bumble ever really work for anyone? And HOW can we get more comfort...

Q, A, and a FREE Coaching for You!
What do you do if you suspect cheating? And want a private sesh with me for free? Of course you do!! Subscribe to and hop on my GetVokl channel tonigh...

Learning From Best Exes
Hosts of the Best Exes Podcast Gabe and Colton join me to talk about their breakup, breakups and what we learn from them, HOW they managed to make som...

2020 Vision: Get Back Out There
Stop self-sabotaging! What a great New Year's resolution. I tell you how and also when to let things go and when to get back out there. Kick the year...

Resolving Your New Year's Q's
Let's talk about the New Year! And what we want to do differently or what we want to do exactly the same. We answer your q's with some celebratory a's...

'Tis the Season for Listener Qs!
Fill up on answers to your holiday-related listener questions in a quickie perfectly suited for right before your family dinner or better yet, as insp...

Sexual FOMO
Nekia is OVER being the FRIEND. She is ready for more!!! We talk about dealing with chronic illness while dating and coming clean with some scary subj...

Are You Doing Dating Right?
The last listener question episode was so fun we decided to do another! Keep em coming! This time past guest Rachel Axelrod, full of wisdom and sass,...

Breakup Recovery
This one is so fun!!!! Writer Alex and I cover everything from falling in love with the story but not the person to when to break up, how to recover f...

Thanksgiving Special: FULL of Advice!
Your listener questions answered! By real raw life coach Allie Stark and me. Everything from how to combat loneliness to how to balance work and lovvv...

You're Not a Trainwreck
Josiah is a tough nut to crack but we got there! He hasn’t really been in love, hasn’t REALLY been in an LTR he was into, and thinks there is somethin...

When It All Gets Real
Robbie is in his first few months of a new relationship and sh*t is getting REAL. He has to learn how to navigate alone time, the L word, meeting the...

Learning to Fly
Emily is baby-bird-new to LA and I am SHOVING her out of the nest and making her my personal soldier for dating positivity. It’s time for adventures,...