Having It A.L.L.
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Having It A.L.L.
Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new r...
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Healing My Wounded Inner Child
What does it mean to heal your inner child?
The process of growing up into adulthood is filled with many impactful events, some empowerin...
Avoiding Burnout, Business Planning and Content Creation: Answering Your Life Questions Part 3
Ever feel like the more you achieve, the emptier you feel?
You’re hitting goals, growing your business, and pushing hard—but the burnout is real...
Fasting Isn’t About Food...It’s About Emotional Mastery
What if the reason you keep breaking your commitments isn’t about willpower, but emotions?
This episode dives into how emotions like stre...
The 6 Steps I Use to Get Unstuck When I Feel Lost, Unclear or Unmotivated
Ever feel like your life should feel amazing, but inside... you’re just stuck?
You’ve got the job, the family, the “success”—but confiden...
Who’s Watching You Quit On Yourself (And Learning From Your Example)?
Who are you unconsciously giving permission to quit on themselves?
In this episode, I share a powerful story from a recent Play Camp wher...
How to Turn Stress Into Power (Using Nothing But Your Workout)
What if your next workout could help you stay calm in a fight, show up powerfully at work, or stop spiraling when life hits hard?
In this...
Is Your Life Feeling Out Of Control? Here Are 2 Simple Ways To Get Your Sense Of Stability Back
Feeling like life’s got the upper hand?
When everything around you feels unpredictable—your relationships, your career, your body—it’s easy to s...
The Life-Changing Magic of Just Going for It
When was the last time you stood at the edge of something, heart pounding and stomach knotted, knowing you could either stay safe… or jump?
When Life Doesn’t Go Your Way, Listen Closer
Ever found yourself staring at a situation thinking, “This isn’t what I wanted”?
What if it’s exactly what you needed?
In this epis...
The Invisible Weight You’re Carrying Through Your Life
What happens to your body when your thoughts turn on you?
In today’s episode, I walk you through two real-life moments from the gym that...
The Game You’re Playing Is Working - Even If It’s Wrecking You
What game are you playing so well… it’s keeping you stuck?
If you feel like life isn’t working, pause before you call it failure. You’re...
The Real Reason Your Breakthrough Keeps Dodging You
We all say we want change—more peace, better health, deeper connection, stronger boundaries. But the results we crave only show up when our effort mat...
The Real Test of Growth: Will You Choose Integrity Over Approval?
What do you do when your values get tested—and the cost of staying true is real?
This episode is about the moments that reveal who you ac...
7 Must Haves For Stellar Relationships (They Are Not What You Think)
Ever find yourself stuck in the same kind of relationship drama—even when you swore it’d be different this time?
In this episode, I’m bre...
Why Self Love Feels Off (Even When You’re Doing All the “Right” Things)
You hit the gym, eat clean, take the solo date—but deep down, something still feels off. Why?
In this episode, I unpack a version of self...
STOP Ignoring This Feedback, If You Want Your Life To Change
Are you filtering out the very thing that could break your patterns?
You say you want to grow. You say you’re ready for the next level. But when...
The "Be-Do-Have" Paradigm And The Simple Mindset Shift That Will Realign Your Life
Ever feel like you're doing all the right things but still not getting what you want?
That’s where the Be-Do-Have paradigm comes in. Most people...
Stop Drifting—The 5 W’s That Realign Your Life
Are you really living... or just reacting?
In this episode, I’m handing you a tool for deep, no-BS introspection: the 5 W’s of Radical Se...
The Truth About Balance: Why You’re Out of Alignment (And Don’t Know It)
What if the reason life feels so off... is because your wheels are out of balance?
In this episode, I introduce you to a powerful framewo...
8 Habits That Make You Unshakable In Life, Love and Leadership
Are you showing up like the person you say you want to be?
Or are you still stuck in habits that keep you in survival mode—burnt out, resentful,...
"You Have To Move Your Feet": A Story About Seeing The Beauty In All Of Life's Circumstances with Robert Monroe
Today’s guest is a father to three daughters, a husband to a beautiful wife, friend to myself and so many others, and an economist by profession.
The Personal Development Trap: Why Chasing Growth Might Be Holding You Back
When’s the last time you stopped to actually see your growth?
Not the goal you're chasing. Not the next version of you that you think you should...
The Quiet Habit That’s Killing Your Self Confidence And Self Trust
What if the real reason you’re stuck isn’t a lack of time or willpower—but a lack of trust in yourself?
Every broken promise to yourself...
The 3 Mindsets That Have Transformed My Confidence, Relationships and Wealth
In today's episode I'm sharing with you three mindsets that have been the biggest catalysts for my personal transformation over the past 4 years. From...
You’re In The Fire—Here's How You Don’t Lose Your Center
What do you lean on when life blindsides you, again and again—and you’re too tired to pretend you’ve got it all together?
When life throw...
The Consequences Of Brutal Honesty
There can be a tremendous amount of fear and anxiety associated with honesty, despite the freeing impact that complete honesty can have on ourselves a...
7 Gratitude Truths That’ll Rewire Your Mind (This Will Change How You See Everything)
What if gratitude isn’t what you think — and what you’ve been taught is keeping you stuck?
In this episode, I’m breaking down 7 powerful...
The Danger Of Seeking Work-Life Balance
In this episode I tear apart the concept of “work-life balance” and explain why it’s dangerous, leads to unhealthy living, and why we have to replace...
How To Melt Your Fears Like Butter
I’ve talked about facing fears a number of times on this show.
Most people who have a "self help" type of show probably talk a lot of abo...
Do You Know Your Center? The Success Of Your Relationships Depends On It!
This episode was inspired by a conversation I had with my father. Like many topics I cover in this podcast, my own life is the testing ground where I...
Who Are You When No One Is Watching?
The self improvement game is, many times, a public one. Spiritual, physical, mental and emotional self work can all be done in the open or with a grou...
Here's Why You Keep Getting Into Unhealthy Relationships
Today's podcast was inspired by an email I received from a listener.
Her situation is something that I think many of us can relate to, an...
What The Birth Of My Child Has Taught Me About Faith (It's Not What You're Thinking)
This episode is all about FAITH, but not in the most widely used sense. I’m talking about having supreme confidence and trust in someone or something....
How To Expand The Great Things In Life Through Focus
You've probably heard sayings like"What you think you become." (Buddha) and "What you focus on expands." (T. Harv Eker).
They are great a...
Breaking Your Fear Patterns Once And For All
By now you might have heard of the Tony Robbins documentary “I am not your guru”. It’s been making its way around Netflix and the internet. If you hav...
Your Relationships Are Killing You
I truly believe that your relationships are the most important factor to your health (and I'm not talking about relationships in the way you might be...
The One Thing I Use to Get Back on Track to Achieving My Goals
This episode was inspired by an article titled “The one sentence that finally inspired me to lose 70 pounds”.
I read that and thought to...
Who Will You Become In 2025? My Favorite Practice For Ensuring A Healthy, Wealthy and Amazing New Year
Who will you become in 2018? We're all used to setting new years resolutions and goals for what we want to DO in the upcoming year, but rarely do we m...
The 6 F's - Having It A.L.L. Framework Part 3
This is part 3 in my series where I'm breaking down the meaning of A.L.L. - Abundant Loving Life, and where I'm sharing my framework for "having it al...
What is Your Love Conversation? - Having It A.L.L. Framework Part 2
Continuing our series on the Having It A.L.L. framework, today's episode is all about LOVE.
I have a special guest on this episode with...